Sinking in Quicksand: The Saddest Things You Will Face

heart-or-mind:

Everyone is forced to grow up whether they like it or not. But as you start the gradual transitions of becoming an adult, middle-aged individual, and even a senior, you start looking back at your life; the last 20, 50, or 65 years. Did you do everything you set out to do? Did you accomplish your…

// There’s a difference between giving up and moving on.//

staypozitive:

  • Giving up is when you have a chance to change things, but you think it’s too difficult or not worth the trouble or just stop pursuing something and just give up on the spot.
  • Moving on is when you realize that you can’t change things or that it’s better that you don’t try any longer giving up or failure isn’t the best option. Moving on is another thing, moving on as in that you wouldn’t look back to the past and that you would be more successful than failure.

(via heart-or-mind)

// I hate this feeling…//

I hate when I break down like this whenever I talk to you … I get so weak when it comes to you and I feel so pathetic.  I know I can talk to you about anything.  You’re the only person I ever put all my trust in.  The only person I knew I could really depend on.  Who knew everything about me and all the thoughts that went through my head… You’re the only one who can make me feel better when I’m upset.  We never even talk and it kills me. It kills me that you promised we could be friends. But I don’t even know what you could call us anymore.  I wish you were in my life again.  But is that even possible?  it hurts just to talk to you on the rare occasion that we do… and whenever we talk it always ends up bad, or really serious and I end up breaking down all over again.  You always know that something troubling me and it always comes down to me talking about my deepest feelings and problems. And as much as I try to avoid it, it comes back to you.  What am I supposed to tell you when a lot of the stuff I’m feeling is because of you?  Because it’s not like telling you will change anything anyway… It’s just so frustrating..

// Perfect Moments.//

heart-or-mind:

It’s rare to have a perfect moment in life. But everyone experiences a moment that is so perfect in every way, shape and form. That moment could be spent alone, or it could be shared by someone, or even several other people. No matter what’s going on in that moment, or who you are with, it’s a moment that you wish would never end. Some people like to think that those perfect moments involve extravagant, flashy things going on, but oftentimes, it’s the simplest of moments that will captivate us. You could be simply lying in bed next to someone you haven’t seen in ages and just talking, laughing and catching up. Just two people who’ve missed each other. You don’t know it at first, but this is that perfect moment. You wish you could lay there forever just talking, laughing, even sometimes just laying in silence snatching quick glances at one another. Those glances turn into gazes, and when looking into each others eyes, you just can’t help but smile because in this moment, you are the happiest you’ve been in far too long, you’re in complete bliss. But sadly time will pass and eventually that moment will have to end. You replay that moment in your head over and over again wishing you could relive it, so you could find that moment of bliss once again. But… those moments are rare, so you have to appreciate it and make sure you never forget it. Although it has to come an end, it’s a bittersweet ending, because when something like that ends, it’s key not to be disappointed, but to be grateful that you had to the opportunity to experience one of those rare moments.

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